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PostSubject: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 18:44

heres a question that may baffle people.

Okay me and a friend got into a fight one night and he said that he doesn't think i'm really Bisexual.

So I replied to him That A bi sexual is a person that can fall in love with guys or girls. HOWEVER he beleaved that Bi's are people who HAVE SEX with both men and women.

My question is Just because I'm not into gay sex Does that NOT make me Bisexual? I wanna hear your opinions on this and PLEASE no hate replies I get enough of thoughs At work as is >_<
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 18:48

I'm not really sure on that one. Well...lets put it this way...what defines a strait guy and what defines a gay guy in terms of relationships?
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 18:52

Ones less likely to cheat on his girl friend? lol


All jokeing aside I know relationship wise there almost no differance but the fact is my firend doesn't beleave I;m bi because I refuse to have gay or anal sex with another guy.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 18:54

Bi, in my opinion, means that you find both men and woman sexually attractive...I honestly think it's a matter of opinion of what you think and not somebody else.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 18:57

You could be like 60/40 Bi Smile LOL.

I just would never do something like that, I don't mean This in any offensive way, but I find gay sex very gross.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 18:58

Thats true lol

My friend is also Bi and has had 2 boyfriends I didn't but i'll say if an anime guy is hot or if a RL guy was hot lol It gets really bad when me and my gf start talking about FF7 and we BOTH love vincent XD
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:01

Vincent IS hawt... Razz

Umm...but anywho! Yeah, you're like what Simba said. More leaning towards the strait path but still able to find a guy sexually attractive but tend to just love them, not make love to them. =^.^=

Me, truthfully, rather be...erm...be "done" by a guy. ^^


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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:04

My friend at a camp was explaining something similiar to this to me. It's a little X-rated but quite funny. He's not gay, He was just telling us this thing for some reason.

*WARNING X-RATED*

He said When you're watching a porn-o and it's hetero not girl on girl. Who would you rather see, Some guy with a little dick pound the girl, or some guy with a small dick pound a girl.

People who I were with said "Big Dick"

And he said "See, Theres a little gay in all of us" XD!
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:05

lol

I'm glad Simba is open minded ^_^

But yea it creaped my gf out when i told her I was bi (But she forgot about it anyways lol) she still loves me and has accepted it she has also accepted the fact i;m also a diaper lover ^_^ wehad a few "Talks" about it and shes open to it she also liked some of the baby fur art from FTT that i showed her ^^
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:08

I tend just not to look at porn...I can imagine much much more perverted stuff in my head perfectly...yay for uber imagination! XD

And yay for openmindedness! He deserves to be pet! =^.^=

*Pet pets the Simba.* X3
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:12

Spyder Fox wrote:
I tend just not to look at porn...I can imagine much much more perverted stuff in my head perfectly...yay for uber imagination! XD


It is odd that I'd rather look at a naked furry chick than uh naked human chick. I guess I'm Furetrosexual? I don't know, I still like to look at girls boobs at the pool though (Sorry Got a little carried away there.)


Thank you for the pet BTW ^_^
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:14

No problem Simba. ^^

I dunno about that Simba. I actually prefer the furries to the humans too though, so you're not really alone.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:21

Spyder Fox wrote:
No problem Simba. ^^

I dunno about that Simba. I actually prefer the furries to the humans too though, so you're not really alone.

I guess its some weird fantasy I've had, Hell, when I was little kid like 4 and 5 I used to pretend I was a dog for some reason, So Its really nothing new I guess, Don't know what caused it though.

I imagine my wife shalt understand and play along.

([In My Head]Okay Simba, Shut up Shut up.)
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:23

Hee hee hee... =^.^=

Who knows? Maybe she will play along...maybe she'll have those same fantasies as well? You'll never know, people are weird in this world... XD

lol!
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:25

Spyder Fox wrote:
Hee hee hee... =^.^=

Who knows? Maybe she will play along...maybe she'll have those same fantasies as well? You'll never know, people are weird in this world... XD

lol!

Yeah, I see that quite often in TV and such, where they'll do something like pretend to be animals for it (Simpsons do this quite often.), mmm so yeah.

Okay this is turnign quite awkward for me lol.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:28

Huh...? How so Simba...? I'm not feeling awkward at all... O_o;;
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Tue 18 Jul - 19:41

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My question is Just because I'm not into gay sex Does that NOT make me Bisexual? I wanna hear your opinions on this and PLEASE no hate replies I get enough of thoughs At work as is >_<

Hrm, well...in the end, if you're sexually aroused by both guys and girls, that's an open and closed case; that's bisexual, by definition. I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to express with the "wouldn't have gay sex" bit...

If it's just not liking the idea of anal intercourse, then that's not an issue. There are estimates that up to 20% of gay men don't engage in such, and the replacement of such with other alternatives, such as interfemoral sex has a pretty big historical "precedent", from the Greeks to Oscar Wilde.

If you just completely don't find the idea of sex with men in any form attractive, though, it is possible that you're just a straight guy particularly open to acknowledging that there are attractive men out there. I suppose, in theory, you could be aroused by other men but not by the idea of sex with them, which would be...interesting, to say the least.

Another alternative is that you're what I guess would be called "bisocial": not sexually attracted to the same sex but open to the idea of emotional relationships with them.

And, likewise, it is possible that you're just closer to straight than "truly" bisexual. The Kinsey Scale posits that true heterosexuality and homosexuality are far from the norm and that most people fall somewhere in between, with certain amounts of incidental hetero- or homosexuality thrown into their dominant tendency. You just might happen to be a bit more then incidentally homosexual but mostly heterosexual.

*shrugs* In the end, it really depends on what you mean by not being attracted to sex with other men.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Wed 19 Jul - 4:46

wow I could afll into each of thoughs catagories affraid
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Wed 19 Jul - 18:06

Well, in the end, here's the question: are there men, in addition to women, who sexually arouse you? If so, you're bisexual...and, presumably, just not comfortable with the idea of gay sex. The options about not being comfortable with gay intercourse and being more straight than "truly" bi would apply here. If not, you're not bisexual, and it would make the most sense to consider the "straight but open to aesthetically appreciating other men" and "bisocial" options.

In the end, all of the options can't apply.

(Disclaimer: I'm probably misusing the term bisocial...I think it probably has a common usage with less of an attachment to "romantic" relations and a more distant relation with the "X-sexual" words. I'm not quite certain, in the end, but it seemed like a nice term to sum up the point, at the time.)
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Wed 19 Jul - 18:11

well I can concider myself Bisexual because Although i do not want to engange in gay intercourse i would still cuddle with a guy and such ^^
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Wed 19 Jul - 18:25

Well...if you wouldn't have any problem "cuddling", but you're not aroused by them...then you're just not bisexual. It's called "bisexual" for a reason. Wink I'd say that falls under the "straight but open to relations with guys" bit, for the most part.
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PostSubject: Re: Whats ina....   Wed 19 Jul - 18:26

dont get me wrong I do get aroused and all I just don't like gay intercourse ^^" sorry My last post probably wasn't clear
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